How does one succeed in life?

What I need from you?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Why does a college girl cover her face with a scarf in Bangalore?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Does not procrastinate.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Why do narcissists and especially covert narcissists always play the victim?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Who are your 5 or so favorite Quora people?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

How does it feel to be in a marriage without any love?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Procrastinates a lot.

Ask yourself:

What are the pros and cons of a prospective bride/groom not having any siblings?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Are LGBT people accepted in Japan?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Has a cop ever said something to you which was completely unexpected?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

That's it for today.

Hangs out with loser friends.

What is the most sentimental item you inherited from someone dear to you and what does it mean to you?

Do not set goals—set systems.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Why am I sweating so much when I try to do anything?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Making more friends is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Which document should be pointed out to a holocaust denier?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

What is the best sex you have ever had (in detail)?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

What discoveries in AI research have changed our understanding of intelligence evolution?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Why would Joseph Smith say that polygamy was God's law?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Answer me this. These days guys love anal sex right, if you present them with your ass they will happily nail you into the ground. So why do some guys think it's "sissy" to let women stick a finger up their ass?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

What is the impact of being stereotyped as poor on an individual's life? How does it make them feel?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.